Monday, February 10, 2020

An Old Friend Passes

Quite accidentally I came across this information today and so looked up the obituary.

I met Bill when he came to Oceanview School in San Diego to teach my Second Grade class about helicopters.  He came with a pilot who was going to the same ward as me and said he would be happy to come to my class.   The rest is history, Bill told me later he fell in love at first sight. It was a very fun time in my life sailing, sunbathing at the beach, going to dinner and dances.  He was away at sea part of the time and later in my life sent me an email and told me I may have saved his life.  He was being true to me while out to sea and friends of his would visit prostitutes and later one of them died from disease picked up on one of those visits.  He felt he had escaped that by his fidelity to me.

We almost married, but broke up at the beginning of the summer in 1959, the differences in our religious beliefs was too much.  He went to Harvard and I went to BYU for the summer.  I met Richard when I came back and we married 6 weeks later.

Bill visited me at our Choice Mortgage Office in 1990 and told me he was about to marry his third wife and how lucky I was to have escaped marriage with him.  He called me often at midnight when his third marriage was on the blitz and Richard had passed away, always saying he was coming to visit me sometime, said he was getting a divorce.  I think he got dementia after that as he was often confused in his telephone calls.  Somehow he had retained friendships with his ex-wives as he had six children, three boys from the first, one daughter from the second, and a son and daughter from the last.  He had been successful and a millionaire at one time but lost it all, I understand, though his first two wives were very rich and his last was a chiropractor doing well.  He was a very charismatic person with lots of friends.  I enjoyed learning how to sail and always enjoyed being with him.

William Urban BruchWilliam Urban Bruch Obituary


On October 30, 2019 Bill Bruch (Jr.) passed away at the age of 86 in Port Orchard, WA.

Born on December 3, 1932 to William U. Bruch Sr. and Clarice Young Bruch, Bill grew up in Bayport Long Island, NY, where he began his love of sailing. After earning a chemical engineering degree from Columbia, Bill went on to graduate from the US Navy OCS & Flight Schools, serving as a helicopter pilot on the USS Philippine Sea. Military service took him to San Diego, where he started his real estate career by flying clients up to Apple Valley in the late 50's. The east coast drew him back & in '61 he graduated with his MBA from Harvard Business School. Business brought him to Seattle in the mid-60's & Bill found where he wanted to spend the rest of his life- a place where he could both ski and sail in the same day. After a short stint in hydraulic sales, Bill returned to real estate at John L. Scott. At Scott he was a top salesman 1968-74, Bellevue Branch Manager 1974-76, and President 1976-80, expanding the company and helping to steer development of many Bellevue/Eastside neighborhoods. He was one of the founding directors of the NW Multiple Listing Service, a real estate instructor at Bellevue Community College for 17 years, and the author of a manual for agents and brokers using the Hewlett Packard HP 12-C.

After his years at Scott, Bill ran his own real estate & mortgage companies in the 1980's, including Bruch and Vedrich Better Homes & Gardens. His final years in real estate were primarily with Windermere, and finally Realty Executives in Bellevue. Bill, an avid sailor, owner of many Thistles, a Tartan 41, and the first J 36 on Puget Sound. He sailed in 14 Swiftsure races, 4 Victoria-Maui races, and countless others on both coasts, and completed a trans-Atlantic crossing.

A lifelong student of Christian Science, he was a long-time member of the First Church of Christ Scientist Mercer Island, where he served in many roles. Through his faith he continued to grow in wisdom and kindness, understanding that there is no death.

Bill is survived by his younger sister, Anne Miexsell of Sudbury, MA, his wife Laura Balent of Bellevue, WA, as well as his children: William U. Bruch III of La Connor, WA; Robert S. Bruch of Long Beach, CA; James C. Bruch of Kihei, HI; Sarah A. DeBoer (Bruch) of Woodinville, WA; Maxwell B. Bruch of St. Louis, MO; Clarice B. Bruch currently studying in Glasgow, Scotland; & two grandsons: Luke DeBoer and Benjamin Bruch.

Bill's Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, November 22,

from 3-5 pm at the Mercer Island

Community & Event Center,

8236 SE 24th St, Mercer Island, Wa.
Published in The Seattle Times on Nov. 17, 2019

Friday, January 03, 2020

Richard's Home in Las Vegas

Linda had seen the address of Richard's childhood home on Family Search and so visited while in Las Vegas for Ryan's priesthood ordination.  

It is now in "town" next to a large building and I am not sure why it has not been made into a commercial building.  It is evidently a lawyer's office but is badly in need of a new roof.  After Vida died, Richard and Martin gave the property to Miriam and I am not sure when it was sold or if it has even been sold.  Interesting.

Vida had a huge can of tinker toys and the children could make very interesting creations and would try and build them as high as they could.  I have never seen a larger collection of tinker toys in one home.

Vida's husband Merlin died when Richard was only 11.  Vida kept tenants in the bedrooms.  Her brothers were lawyers so she had a constant supply of women who were getting divorces.  I am not sure if she rented to men or not but I definitely know there were women and this is how she supported herself.

There was a nice basement with beds down there for when it was hot when we visited.  



Linda and Sarah pose in front of home.


This is a picture of Richard's home which is in his Memory Book of a picture taken when he left for college at BYU in 1949.



New Year 2020 and "Dear Evan Hansen"

Did not stay up and celebrate New Year's Eve but New Years Day Linda took me to see  "DearEvanHansen" for my birthday.  She also bought me some new Estee Lauder makeup at the Macys store in Carlsbad.  I must remember that the Women's store is separate and on the Northside of the mall.  It is a large branch.

We arrived at the show at the Civic Center quite early so did a lot of people watching.  It was a young audience and I read later that viewers are those who do not usually attend this kind of shows.  But because the content is about a disturbed teenager suicide and it affects on Evan Hansen and others it has drawn a new kind of audience.

It is good we arrived early because our parking was on the 2nd floor of the parking garage.  The power was out in the elevators after the show because of someone pulling the fire alarm and we had to walk up all those stairs.  I have been having trouble with my right knee and I had the most difficulty walking I have ever had.  It was very slow and painful.  I am not liking this at all!!

It is good I had listened and viewed the show on YouTube so I was familiar with the show because I had a hard time hearing certain parts of the show and especially the main character.  But it was very well done and we enjoyed it a lot!!!  Thanks, Linda!!!!

Sunday, December 29, 2019

Dinner at Maria and John's Home

Maria invited me over for barbecue with her family.  Bahia and Mitch were not there for Christmas so they had a late Christmas.  They also had the deck about finished and new brickwork and plantings in the front yard.  And Matt has a great place to live while working to help finish the home.  

It is really nice and I should have taken pictures and the barbecue which was done on the new deck plus salad and potatoes from the kitchen was delicious.  We had cookie ice cream sandwiches for dessert.  Have not had that treat in years.

Great fun playing games and unfortunately they had to drive me home because Carlsbad is so far from La Jolla.  Maria drove my car and Matt followed.  So appreciate the service at night.  I did drive over by myself using the phone for directions I now know I turn off of La Jolla Blvd onto a road much closer to Pacific Beach than I realized so I can go either by Garnet into PB or Torrey Pines Rd..through La Jolla.  Strange how all that is not so familiar to me anymore.


Baha and Mitch


Naomi and Matt


Maria and Johnny

Naomi gave Johnny a book about surf boards which he really was enhjoying.



Wednesday, December 25, 2019

Christmas Eve 2019


On Christmas Eve day I had a wonderful lunch at James' and Camber's house.  It was delicious salmon, yams, and salad.  Sadie and I had a long nap and when I awoke Amy and Joe and were already here.  We had a wonderful dinner of steak, beet and goat cheese salad and fresh bread rolls in the shape of a Christmas Tree.  Gary had made key lime pie for dessert.

The little ones, Charlie and Harper, unwrapped their presents and then we did the same.  Craig was down, Sarah was recouping at home.  I received news Linda was taking me to see "Dear Evan Hanson", a weighted blanket from Maria, a candle from Craig, and a basket of items from Meagan.




It was a very Fun Christmas!!!

Saturday, December 21, 2019

Hardy Christmas Party at Gary and Linda's Home, 2019, contd.

Matt, Sarah, Linda, Matt

Joe


Sarah, Linda, Matt, Nico, Keira, Camber

Maria, Johhny, Eden

 
Scout, Kelly, Collin, Eden

Scout, Kelly, Collin, Eden


Maria, Johnny, Bahia

Kelly, Scout, Collin, Eden

Janet, Matt, Sarah, Linda, Matt, Nico, Keira

Hardy Christmas Party at Gary and Linda's Home, 2019

Gary, Harper, Maria, Johnny

James, Janet, Matt

Janet, Matt, Sarah, Linda

Mitch, Scout, Eden, Bahia, Kelly


Sarah, Linda

Gary,Scout, Harper, Maria, Johnny, Eden

Matt, Nico, Keira

Camber, Joe

Charlie, Meagan, Amy

Charlie, Eden, Playing with toys upstairs.

Collin, James, Gary

Matt, Johnny, Joe, Mitch, Kelly, Amy, Sarah

Linda, Meagan, Maria, Camber

Linda's House Ready for Christmas Party, 2019 Christmas Card







Before I came down to  Linda's for Christmas I had been baking for a long time and freezing individual wrapped goodies and I sent them out to 15 different people, sisters, children and grandchildren.  I sent them in the small priority box which costs $7.80 a box now.  I think this will be my last year for sending foodie gift boxes.

And this was my Christmas Card I sent out:







Friday, December 20, 2019

Nico Shops for Birthday Present

I sent Nico $5 for his birthday to buy a toy.  Meagan said they had to go to three stores of looking before they went back and found the right one at the first store.



Monday, December 16, 2019

Carole's Creation

This is a laminated sheet that Carole had made for her kids so they could learn how to  use Family Search.


Sunday, December 15, 2019

My Sister Carole

Carole decks on jewelry and scarf I had given her with her new fuzzy coat and she looks really cute for church in Billings, Montana.  I asked her if she got any complements and she said, "No".



Wednesday, December 11, 2019

A Selfie

I was trying to take a selfie for some reason, can't remember why.



Sunday, December 01, 2019

Molly's Birthday Surprise

Molly was still in Carlsbad for Thanksgiving weekend when she got her best birthday present.


Friday, November 29, 2019

Snow Time

It always reassures me to see my tree looking back at me.





We planted this tree as a seedling with several others, but none have grown as tall as this one.

John Hardy Memorial Hike 2015

My Life So Far