High Tide at Bathroom Rock

 Maria sent a picture of the high tide at Bathrub Rock today, that is where we walked to and climbed up on to throw John's ashes into the sea.  This was a favorite place for him to come with his surfing friends.  It is at Torrey Pines State Park.

Four Generation Pictures with the Stewart Family

Linda and the Stewarts came over today and we did 4 Generation Pictures.

Linda, Kristi, and I look quite a bit alike, I think!!!

Molly

Brynn

Kate

Ryan

 

Original. Cards from Keira and Eden

 

No Stuffed Nose in the Morning!!!!

 Another gift I got from Ethan was aromatherapy and one of them was Peppermint and it does wonders for my breathing.  My nose is not all dry and stuffed in the morning.  I love it!!!!

Beautiful Skies Over Rancho Bernardo This Evening

 

Christmas 2020 at my Rancho Bernardo Home and then Hardy Home

On Christmas Eve, Mike, grandchild # 3, came over and we shared a Christmas dinner.  I had bought rib roast but it was not done enough so we had an interesting meal.  But it was all very good  and eventually was all eaten and Michael is always fun company for me.  I really enjoyed our evening together.  We had pecan pie and that was not solid either.  I can't cook anymore!!!  And we forgot to take pictures!!!

  

Matt came over on Christmas Day and drove me to James and Camber's house in Carlsbad around 3 or so and James and Camber had Christmas presents for Matt and I along with their children and then Linda and Gary came over and we had prime rib and everything delicious.  Such wonderful food!!!  

Craig was also there and I sat between Matt and Craig.  Such good looking guys, why did we not take pictures???  It was most interesting when everyone shared about 2020 and how it had affected them, wish we had a tape of that.  It was so interesting and such beautiful thoughts shared.  It was very dark when we came home but Matt was driving so that was ok!!!

The only pictures taken though were these ones Camber took of Kelsi, Lea and I in matching shirts.  They are both so darling, I have to show several shots!!!

 

Christmas Morning at the Masseys!! 2020

Meagan shared Christmas morning with me, everybody happy!!!

I am happy to see the fanciful painting of Meagan in Hong Kong hanging in the background.

 

M & M Virtual Christmas Party, 2020

Maria organized a Christmas Party via Zoom for her family and included me for Tuesday, December 22 at 7 pm and then it was changed to 6 pm and I was not ready.  Through the Elf system we were all assigned people to buy a gift for and someone was going to get one for us.  It was all secret. 

 Unfortunately, the present I got for Bahia was supposed to be there by the day before the party and it wasn't and I was panicky about that trying to track it down before the party started and made all kinds of numerical errors and getting no place and then could not figure out how to get on the Zoom party.  Thanks to Mitch and his extreme patience with me I was soon on the party and it was a lot of fun. 

 Unfortunately I was not sharp enough to figure out how to have any pictures of what went on but it was really fun.  We played some games and unwrapped our presents and guessed who bought them and this was the present I got.  It was one that I had chosen.  And they are very fun to wear.  Ethan was my giver!!

 

M & M Christmas, 2020

Maria's Children's names all start with M.  Thus the M & M.

Matt, Maria and Johnny, Bahia and Mitch, Melissa and Ethan, Matt

Melissa and Ethan who feature the gourmet dinners on Instagram!!!

A view of Mitch and Bahia's apartment!!

 Baby is due in March!!!  So excited!!

My Sister Jeanne

Since Covid no one can go into Treeo and visit Jeanne so Julie visited her outside and had these pictures taken in December, 2020.

 

Gingerbread Houses!! By the Stewarts!!!

Wow, the Stewart Family are becoming pros at Gingerbread Houses!!!

This must be Kristi's?

Bynn's?

Molly

Kate

Ryan

 

Aquaphor

Currently I am having another outbreak of Acitinic Keratosis and it is on my forehead and the sides of my forehead plus a couple spots on the nose.  I just got over the case of it on my nose and they said to come back in six months and here it is again.  Dr had me use aquaphor before and I could not believe it but it did clear it up so I am trying it again but when I turn my head to sleep on my pillow it all comes off on the pillow case so I am attempting to keep the cream on my face so it can do it's work while I am sleeping..  We will see if it heals it this time.  Problem is you have to wash your hair every day cuz hard to keep the cream off the hair line.

Eye Makeup

 So here it is, one eye has makeup and the other does not!!!  The doctor said my eye is not getting any smaller but the skin is closing around it.

Fuchs Corneal Distrophy

When I had laser cataract surgery on my left eye, this was also diagnosed and it will only get worse.

Very irritated eyes,,,don't rub, don't put water on, eyes are especially sensitive to glare and bright lights and should not drive at night.  Can be blurry.  Only thing to help is eye drops with sodium chloride in them.

It is the destruction of endothelium cells in the cornea but not sure why and it is hereditary.  The cornea on the front of your eye swells..

Internet suggests blow drying your eyes with a hair dryer set on low and held at arms length, a few times per day ...but I thought dry eyes were irritating, what is the difference?   I do not know but this helps....on low.

Living Alone or Why Don't You Get Married!

What are the positives of living alone?

The biggest positive is that I can have my tablet blasting out a book or the tv blasting out music without any concern as to how it might bother anyone else.  Sadie can always go find a quiet spot, if she wants one.

You can get up when you can't sleep and watch tv or turn on all the lights and do anything you want like go to my office etc. anytime of the day or night.

You can also sleep as long as you want without anyone disturbing you.  I usually get up in the night for awhile and then sleep longer in the morning.  

You can eat anytime you want, anything you want without feeling you need to make a real meal if you are not in the mood.  Sadie does not care.  Peanut butter sandwiches, why not?

When we lived in a big house, it did not matter because you could usually shut your door and be as noisy as you want and not bother anyone, but these little open houses are not really sound proof.

And if you do not feel like talking you don't have to and you don't have to listen to anyone if you are not in the mood.  And you do not have to listen to someone else's tv or music.

Of course, the biggest negative is you do get lonely!!!

I have been alone more than I have been with family in my life...not sure why that is and people say you could get married if you wanted to, well, not that easy.   

I went to work for SBA four years after Richard passed away.  When I was at work, I was surrounded by men, all of them very friendly, nice, mostly younger than me and mostly married.  The ones who are running around single are not necessarily marriage material...most of them thought I was younger than I was.  In fact, when one of our team and I both came in late one morning the teasing began.  I said, "Hey, I am old enough to be his mother!"  And I guess I was a little loud, the guys in the next cubical were having fun listening, I heard.  Funny thing is we did enjoy running around together later, but there was still that age factor.

And one time on the bus, I was on the way to the mall, and some of the guys were behind me.  It was early evening but the driver from the hotel would pick me up at a certain time so I often went.  There was not always someone to run around with.  One of the guys said, "Hey, who are you meeting at the mall?  Why don't you give us a chance?"  Funny, what went through my mind is that it is strange how an old man who you knew as a teenager always looks young to you, but an old man you never knew when he was young, he just looks like an old man!!

I love the romantic story about James Coburn I think, or one of those old guys.  He had a high school sweetheart who he left and made it big in the movies, but one day when they were older and had both had their other life, he came back, walked in her front door with an empty suitcase and skooted it across the floor and said, "Pack and come with me!"  Or something like that.  Somehow you never forget those early crushes...they never grow old.

Acitinic Keratosis again!

 The older I get the more problems I have with allergies, skin sensitivity, etc. Acitinic Keratosis is what the allegist said I had and suppposedly healed and to come back in six months but it has already flaired up again.

Blames the sun but it has to be more cuz I don't get that much sun anymore..I was reading the ten best foods for good skin and currently I am not eating any of them.  Salmon, Broccoli, Lemon, Almonds, Green Tea, Pumpkin Seeds, Honey, Olive Oil, Apple Cider Vinegar, Yogurt.

Apple Cider Vinegar and Olive Oil can be directly rubbed on the skin as well as taken in the mouth.  And some are pushing pumpkin facials.  All I know is I have had too many break outs in the last few years.  

Foods to avoid...alcohol, no problem there, deep fried food, cheese and other dairy foods will increase oil production and lead to blocked pores, coffee and cold cuts, no problem there, doughnuts and other sugary treats, chocolate, problem this time of year.  Sugar glycates collagen, it stiffens it and ages it prematurely.  Heard of no sugar cookies, fine those. Fruit juice is bad, gluten I have already given up, Low fat yogurt because of the high sugar content.  I haven't been eaten yogurt for the last year because the doctor to give it up cuz of the sugar but maybe the high fat yogurt is ok. Already gave up milk but the ice cream is a problem, pasta I seldom eat, however I just bought a dozen boxes of Annies gluten free shell mac and cheese, oops.  Pizza, bad, have two of those in the freeze.  Soda is bad in fact added sugar is the most aging food we consume. Trans fats are bad and whey protein.

I need to carry a card around my neck with all the have and have nots and see if I can conquer this!!!!

And of course stay hydrated!!!!!

 

Welcome Sign

 When I was looking for a place to hang a Christmas Wreath I found a nail embedded in the pillar and it works very well for the wooden Welcome sign that Maryanne had made for me.

I Love Puzzles!!!

I have done two 1000 puzzles since just before Christmas!!!!!  Maria gave me one for Christmas which was really a luxury to work on and I love having my craft table in the kitchen where there is so much light.  I tend to spend all my time in there and listen to one of my books.  Or watch a show on my Tablet.

  

Linda then brought over another one from Kelly and Collin and I finished that right away, too.  Of course, I get nothing else done!

 

My Rancho Bernardo Rental

It is interesting that the rental I have been in since September has some of the most glorious flowers, items I would have liked to have had and never any just like this.

Three of the most beautiful rose bushes.

A vined fence that has gorgeous flowers on it.

Even a Sunflower!  I have tried to grow those, never successful.

Even growing among the succulents are poinsettias, which should be high and gorgeous by Christmas.  The last time I had poinsettias growing in my yard was when I was a single school teacher and living in Hillcrest, San Diego.

Christmas Card 2020

                                      Merry Christmas 2020

 

Firsts in 2020…

 

·         Longest I ever stayed at one of my children’s home, because of the Coronavirus

·         Most expensive hair cut I ever had, because of the Coronavirus

·         Least I ever ate out, because of the Coronavirus

·         Fewest movies at the theater I have ever seen, because of the Coronavirus

·         Fewest Sundays I have ever attended Church, because of the Coronavirus

·         Least money I have ever spent on gasoline, because of the Coronavirus

 

But because of the Coronavirus, buyers were wanting to move to the mountains and I had equity in my home

And sold it in August and moved into a rental in Rancho Bernardo on September 1^st.

 

And had Thanksgiving at my home with my granddaughter 

Meagan's family.

         

And will have Christmas in my own home this year.

 

And am really enjoying being only 20-30 minutes from my children and ten of my 15 grandchildren and three of my 9 great-grandchildren.

 

And it will be a warm winter in the desert of San Diego, rather than the snow in the mountains at Lake Almanor and though I will miss my friends of 21 years in the mountains, it will be a whole new way of life, closer to family.

 

It is a Wonderful Life…So Thankful for all my blessings of family and the gospel of Jesus Christ in my life. 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from 12593 Horado Rd., San Diego, Ca 92128  

Nico is Five

Nico turns five on December 15 and I had sent a rock kit from Amazon for 6 years and up.  Meagan sent this picture and said it was a great gift for him.  He has always liked to play with the rocks I have collected and John has collected and I have them in bowls or in bookcases.

 They must have had a birthday party for him today, a few days early.

A Massey Gingerbread House

 The children did it all themselves!!! 

I have not done one for years, I always thought they were very hard to do!!!